I completely agree with you the Paradox is solved via this fuzzy logic.
If suffering is caused by desire and then end of desire is the end of suffering then can we not cease suffering not by, "squashing or eliminating", as is generally taught but by accepting the desire and if required Fulfilling it.
This way the desire is ceased and the suffering ended. Of course this only would apply under, "if it harms none do as thou wilt"!299px-Om-mani-padme-hum-mantra.svg